Okay, we live in California, so you will probably think this is typical for us. Last week I went online and found two papers written about Joey's problem by vets in Greece and the UK. Each of them noted there may be some correlation between the penis problem and a dog's back.
I found a wonderful animal chiropractor in our area, Ganelle Dippe, who is also a licensed people chiropractor. She went back to school to be trained to treat animals. I believe she has taught a class over at UC Davis vet school. So far she is in great demand, from people sending their personal jets so she can travel to treat their horses, dogs, etc.
My husband and family thought I was nuts, but I took Joey to her. Turns out he needed an adjustment in his neck and also has a sensitive place on his spine down by his tail. I paid my $55.00 and took Joey home, his penis still out.
The first time Joey licked himself I put KY on it and when it went back in the sheath I put some ointment around the outside. The ointment was from Dr. Long, who did the surgery last year. I don't know if it's the chiropractor, the ointment, or if it's temporary, but we are on day 4 of "Mr. Winkie" being totally in the sheath!!
Thank you to all the folks who responded to my posting. Thankfully, Jann