jezz i have only started so dont really know that much
but from my experience yes it was tough getting into i met a nice lady whos shows chihuahuas she told me how to get into it and what to do
my hubby is really the talker i let him then he introduced me to everyone i now have confidence to speak to everyone with all difference breeds quite alot are really encouraging and very helpful i have a few who sent me emails now about up and coming shows and a few who text the hubby about shows too
showers love talking about their dogs and i love listening to all their stories
once you get in their you actually see and meet the same people all the time
one of my shower friends started when i started and we always do the stake classes together its so funny as she has a mastiff and i have my chihuahuas
so we are learning together
sunshine45(angie) and jesshan(denise) have been showing for years they would tell you a lot more better than i can lol as i am only a beginer
but its good to get info from all sorts of people beginers and people who have done it for years as all info counts