Every winter I have such a terrible terrible time with my hands being so dry they split in places and it's sooooooo SORE!!

It hurts like the devil!! I cannot find anything that will really heal them and stop them from cracking open. Does anyone know of a miracle hand cream????
( I wash my hands ALOT so I think that's part of the problem, and i'm using a gentler hand soap NOT antibacterial as I know it's hard on the skin)