Your pics have come out fine and what a sweet, happy contented girl she is.
I don't know what sort of forums you were visiting before, but they sound positively ghastly ... the ONLY way any of us here could see you is as a champion among women who took something on in an emergency situation which will ultimately mean you may have to make sacrifices yourself from time to time - that is nothing but admirable and worthy of anyone's respect in my book! Don't you worry about those bitter, twisted peeps elsewhere, here we embrace everyone like you and love to help, support and advise whenever asked