Raw is high value as Onyx is telling you. She doesn't want anyone taking that away, too valuable.
If you can't trade up, or teach a reliable 'drop it', then make it easy on yourself and feed really really big (as big as her head or larger), or just dice it up into teensy pea sized pieces or grind. Otherwise you will have the gulping problem, as you found out.
I think the pork bone will digest just fine. I would do meat only meals for several meals, no bone. She may have a chalky stool or two, but you may not even notice that. I don't think she will get impacted. Just keep an eye out. I think it will digest with no problems at all.