When arguments start up here, there is always someone that will say something along the lines of us being here because our CHI(S), which is true.
And if you think about it, in the END, it really is about our chis.

I've noticed that when there are disagreements/arguments..the one thing that we never bring up to make things worse are one another's dogs.

You all know what I'm talking about?

Like with me, sometime last year, I had a big argument with someone through myspace, and she called me every name in the book, as well as calling a name to one of my siblings..but she never once said anything about my dogs to seem more mean.


anyways, that was just in my mind..and wanted to share.

And I for one am glad you did, and you are so right! At least if and when it gets iffy, everyone apparently, up to this point draws the line at attacking the babies... now if we can just get it down to not attacking one another! WOW That would be great!

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Im glad noone on here has brought it down to the level of attacking the dogs but it still doesnt fix the problem of everyone attacking eachother

I think people know better than to do that. Unfortunantly there's no way to stop all arguments / disagreements. I've been on so many diff boards from crocheting to diabetes & there are always fights a group of people leave, it just always happens. I do have to say the more strict the mods are the better control & less fights there are on boards. Though alot of people don't like boards like that so there's no way to make everyone happy. In the end everyone needs to think before we start a thread or post in 1. Just as we would think about what we'd say to someone in the real world. The problem is people on the net think they can do & say what they feel regardless of how it will come across to others because we're not looking at each other when we're talking. I will admit I have a really hard time with the mod job because I think people take stuff too personal & don't think about why we do what we do they get mad when we don't do enough & they get mad when we step in too much it's a no win for mods

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