thats what i mean... still waiting and its been over a month since Valentines Day. even if you do get your present, its not right to be that late... in my opinion, dont enter if your going to be that late. On the Christmas exchange , i was so nervous that one of my girls Secret Santa recipeients would not get there presents until the day after Christmas. ( mail was so slow around then and i did send it out weeks in advance ) one day and i was worried... not a month!!! thats why no more for me. i'm glad i've done these in the past , i had fun with it. the rules do say theres always that chance that you may not recieve anything ... but its just happened way too much.