Did you try spraying her directly in the face? You have to use it on stream, not spray. It didn't do much for Angel until I got him right in the face! NOw if he sees me reach for it, he stops! It doesn't hurt them.
I know someone who did the citronella collar on a bigger dog and it worked almost immediately!
When I'm out with Angel, if he starts to bark, I get straight in front of him, put him in a sit, make him look at me, I say "no bark" , holding a treat in my hand and when he is quiet and still looking at me, I treat him. It doesn't always work because my timing is off! But I keep trying!
Check out Emily Larlham. I am viewing her training videos when I get a chance. I do a ton of searching for help with Angel. I have come to the conclusion that I am not going to accomplish much until I get his total, undivided attention! So that is my first goal, to keep his eyes focused on me!
Victoria Stillwell is very entertaining. I like her! But what we see on tv and videos is unrealistic! We don't all have the tools and people at our disposal like she does! I, too, don't have friends that can come to my house and help me with stuff like she shows!
I feel for you! I am trying to make Angel more friendly and less bitey. Hahaha! He has no other people or dogs to socialize with. It's pretty much myself, hubby, and Susie, our golden. There's the occasional acquaint enhance of ours, our boys come ver once a week, but no others he can safely interact with!
It's hard, but, I think she will come around! How old is she? They do get calmer with age! I just ordered. One of those cd's that is supposed to calm your dog with music! I am anxious to try it!
Good luck! Someone will come up with something at will work for you!