So hubs is at it again, we really haven't made any changes over the last year apparently at all. I kicked him out over the weekend. I'm seriously considering divorce now. He apparently doesn't seem to want to get better.
This January I made two resolutions. One was to do what was necessary to be healthy and feel good. The other was that this year is about ME. I will not live like that anymore. 2015 was awful and I refuse to let 2016 be the same.
I don't want a divorce but he's forcing my hand. I am not making any rash decisions. I have two more months on a credit repair program we were doing. I'll decide when that's over what I'll do. If I file I will also have to file bankruptcy.
I'm really sorry to hear about this. I remember your story from a while back... it's a difficult situation to be in, but you're right that you need to think of yourself and your well being. Whatever happens, I really hope 2016 will be a better year for you.