I am so upset!

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SunnyFLMum

Discussion Starter · Jun 28, 2005

HUbby just came home and I told him about Gizmo's accidents today...and hubby goes and says "well if he doesn't get his shit straight within a year he is gone, I ain't having no dog pissing al over the place in my house...this ain't no kennel"

Now mind you this is odd of him to act this way, I know he had a hard day at work, he works in construction...

but still I looked at him and said "Over my dead body, your not touching this dog...he stays with me"

HUbby walked off muttering...while I was left crying

I haven't stopped crying....god I can't even type...why on earth would he say something like that? This little dog is like my child....he is my baby....and he counts on me...

I am just stunned.....my goodness how could someone say something like that?

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Seiah Bobo

· #2 · Jun 28, 2005

Give him the benefit of the doubt that he had a horrible day at work. I figure theres two kinds of groups...well three. 1. They love thier animals and treat them as if the had given birth to he/she (people like us). 2. They have pets but treat them as animals...not humans (probably like your husband). 3. People who despise anything thats not human.

Maybe after he's had time to relax and calm down he'll realize what he said wasn't nice and apologize.

chimom

· #3 · Jun 28, 2005

Maybe your husband just had a very bad day? Sometimes when we are stressed or upset, we say things we don't really mean. Maybe you just need to let the situation cool off and then try to discuss it.

OzzyAndLilysMom

· #4 · Jun 28, 2005

Sweetie - dont worry he had a crap day and just took it out on you and Gizmo - he doesnt mean it - anyway Gizmo will soon learn - Im sure once his neutered it will stop its just a stage hes going through :wave:

Kristin

· #5 · Jun 28, 2005

My bf said that to me too because Lina has her accidents. I just tell him if the dog goes I go...simple as that. But, I'm sure that he was just having a bad day (like you said) and he'll change his mind once he gets home and cools off.

luv4mygirls

· #6 · Jun 28, 2005

and they say us women are moody and "pmsy" yeah right :roll:

SC

· #7 · Jun 28, 2005

Try not to worry about it. My husband has said things like that before too but then will turn right around and love on them like they are the best little things to come along (which they are :wink: ). I think men just don't have the patience that women do.

SunnyFLMum

Discussion Starter · #8 · Jun 28, 2005

After arguing for 20 minutes he admitted he didn't mean it, but still I am very hurt...

Like Seiah's moms said there are three people...me and my parents are people number one, we treat our animals like we birthed them, to us, they are our children...

to me he is, I don't plan on having kids, so to me, and my parents, Gizmo is my child, their grandchild...

I still haven't stopped crying...maybe it's PMS...I don't know...I am just stunned...

Gizmo is such a good little baby....he has had maybe 5 total accidents since I got him at 8 weeks...I don't know, but isn't that really good? Poor baby is in his basket now, until hubby leaves cuz I am in the middle of cooking...and hubby just left to get some supplies for a job tommorrow...I just look at little Gizmos face and I lose it...

I am so glad I can talk to you guys about this....you guys understand..most people think I am nuts...but then again, I live in Palm Beach, so little dogs can go everywhere here!...

Thank you for your kind words...

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Vala

· #9 · Jun 28, 2005

:roll: My bf is like that...either the boys had an accident..or chewed on something...then he goes yelling all over the place like a drama queen :roll: .. :? I look at him like..what the hell is your problem.. :lol: laugh and say...stop your bs...in half an hour you'll be apologizing to them and kissing their bellies..save me the headache of hearing you talk.. :lol: ..but then again...I think I wear the pants but let him believe he does...lol. :lol:

Kari

· #10 · Jun 28, 2005

5 accidents isn't bad at all! My bf likes to gripe about my boys too. I think that's just what guys do. :roll:

Vala, women are really good at that aren't they? My bf thinks he wears the pants too but we really know the truth!

Rachael Polachek

· #11 · Jun 28, 2005

We all say things we shouldn't sometimes so let's just chalk it up to that. I'm sure the big dope is really sorry he ever opened his mouth. :lol:

And he probably also knows that if push comes to shove you will choose Gizmo.

SunnyFLMum

Discussion Starter · #12 · Jun 28, 2005

Rachael Polachek said:
And he probably also knows that if push comes to shove you will choose Gizmo.

Oh yea!! I was pathetically sobbing over rice...LOL...I was cooking...

When he says I didn't mean it...I told him to go away...

Let me tell you I have had a hard time adjusting to being married...Because I am catholic, I refused to live with him before marriage...we have ALOT of problems...

But to pick on the baby...that's just wrong.... :?

I think I wil go and have a Martini...LOL...

Hubby has the saddest look on his face...

Mind you I have kept Gizmo by my side...Oh I also called hubby's mom and told her what he said...LOL..his mom is in LOVE with Gizmo!!!!

Again I can't thank you guys enough....like I said only WE understand.... :wink:

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luv4mygirls

· #13 · Jun 29, 2005

next time he misses the toilet (which nearly ALL MEN DO) tell him if it happens again he's gone.

mm you made rice for dinner... i woulda came over hehehe....

SunnyFLMum

Discussion Starter · #14 · Jun 29, 2005

luv4mygirls said:
next time he misses the toilet (which nearly ALL MEN DO) tell him if it happens again he's gone. mm you made rice for dinner... i woulda came over hehehe....

LMAO!!! Yes!!! He does miss the toilet...LOL

I'll keep that in mind...

Oh and yea, I made rice and beans with spanish steak....yummmy!!!

luv4mygirls

· #15 · Jun 29, 2005

SunnyFLMum said:
luv4mygirls said:

next time he misses the toilet (which nearly ALL MEN DO) tell him if it happens again he's gone. mm you made rice for dinner... i woulda came over hehehe....

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LMAO!!! Yes!!! He does miss the toilet...LOL

I'll keep that in mind...

Oh and yea, I made rice and beans with spanish steak....yummmy!!!

girl youhad me at rice hehehe..... i had a feeling it was rice and beans lol... yellow or white? (can we tell i'm hungry lol)

SunnyFLMum

Discussion Starter · #16 · Jun 29, 2005

Yellow rice with pink Beans....LOL...

Oh and fried Tostones (plantains)

LOL....we have leftovers if ya want? I even made a cheese flan...hehehe

Gizmo likes the caramel sauce...Shhhh!! I just gave him a lil bit :wink:

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