daisy refuses to go potty on her puppy pads.. so i don't know what else to do but to keep her in the kitchen with the puppy gate closed until she goes. but she whines incredibly. she used to whine in the laundry room but she sleeps through the night in there, but we want to keep her in the kitchen now when we can't watch her 24/7. she likes to potty on soft carpet, and i swear she'll hold it in til she can run around and be free. i dont know what to do, i'm scared my husband is going to hate me if i can't potty train her and it's stressing me out because she doesn't learn. and i try saying NO and being firm with her, but she wont listen and it doesn't trigger and now i'm crying because i already feel like i'm a failure. how can i get this potty training thing to work? time is moving quickly .. what age should she know how to be potty trained at? i'm so scared she wont learn in time. *sigh*