[missydawn]

when will this pain get better,each day I think I hurt worse!All me and my husband can do is cry!The house doesn't feel right.Maisey keeps going around the house looking for Molly.It seems like every where I look is a little memory of her.I feel like we have lost a human family member.sleeping is not a big option right now.We will be taking a mini vacation in a few weeks ,it will be our first with her gone.If we wouldn't of had it planned for months and all set up ,we probably wouldn't even go.Molly slept in my husbands arms every night I know his heart is broken as well!.Her little spot is empty now,for the rest have their own little spots around us.This will be our first Thanksgiving and first Christmas without her.The thought of it is hard.She's our daughter,and here or not we love her so much!!Please pray for our broken hearts.I find comfort in the song Karen Peck sings,"Hold me while I cry" for those of you that have not heard this,you need to go to you tube and pull it up.Thanks for listening...

 

[susan davis]

I'm so sorry about Molly. As for grieving, I guess it just has to take its course. Try to think of the good times you had. Be aware that Molly may 'visit' you in the near future. I 'heard' some of my past dogs in the period right after their death. I'm sure Molly wouldn't want you to be so sad!

 

[Kalisee]

when will this pain get better,each day I think I hurt worse!All me and my husband can do is cry!The house doesn't feel right.Maisey keeps going around the house looking for Molly.It seems like every where I look is a little memory of her.I feel like we have lost a human family member.sleeping is not a big option right now.We will be taking a mini vacation in a few weeks ,it will be our first with her gone.If we wouldn't of had it planned for months and all set up ,we probably wouldn't even go.Molly slept in my husbands arms every night I know his heart is broken as well!.Her little spot is empty now,for the rest have their own little spots around us.This will be our first Thanksgiving and first Christmas without her.The thought of it is hard.She's our daughter,and here or not we love her so much!!Please pray for our broken hearts.I find comfort in the song Karen Peck sings,"Hold me while I cry" for those of you that have not heard this,you need to go to you tube and pull it up.Thanks for listening...

You feel like you lost a "human" member...Dear, there is no difference. She was your baby, makes no difference if she had 4 legs or two.. She loved you and she was loved. Time will make things easier. My heart breaks for you, trully. I wish you strength.

 

[SugarChi]

So sorry for your loss

I can't imagine how u must feel, my thoughts and prayers are with u xxxx

 

[Missygal]

I promise it will get better with time! I lost my very special chocolate lab two years ago and I still think about her and sometimes even get weepy. Please know you are in all our thoughts and you're not alone!!!

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[kellyb]

I hope I am not out of line, as I am new and do not know you. I mean no disrespect. I wish you peace and healing. It is terrible to lose a loved one. Our furbabies give us so much unconditional love, it is natural to feel a void when they are no longer with us. It is true that time makes it easier to cope. You will be in my thoughts

 

[Wicked Pixie]

You just have to wait it out and allow yourself to eel this pain. We grieve in direct proportion to the amount we loved. You loved your Molly very much, it will be a long time before her passing stops hurting. I lost my beloved skunk Tallulah two years ago. Her death totally broke my heart, I couldn't function for weeks. It was almost a whole year before I could face getting a new pet, but that is when Bambi came along, and brought the sunshine back into my life. I still miss Lula every day, and it still hurts to think of her, but I am able to remember the good times now.
Everyone on this forum knows exactly how you feel. It isn't 'only a dog' and we are all sharing your pain. xxx

 

[Lisa T]

My heart aches for you, you will just have to take each day as it comes and know that what your feeling is normal and healthy. You loved her, she knew she was loved and that's your comfort. X

 

[Buildthemskywards]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I've lost 4 dogs over the years and I've always been devastated. The only time I've ever seen my dad cry was when our dogs died. I'm sorry you're having to go through it. We can all identify with your pain and are here when you need us. It does get better xox

 

[jesuschick]

I am so sorry. I wish I could say that I do not understand, but I do.

Time is a great help. We were a mess when we lost Mick. That is how we got Hope. We committed to not having any more pets so that we could travel and with our children grown and out of our home, come and go as we pleased. That obviously did not work.

Like you, we could not eat, sleep nor talk to each other without crying. We got her and told her that she was not taking Mick's place, just his space. Then, like fools, we got 2 more! We chuckle at how much they all would have annoyed him.

I pray peace for your broken hearts.

 

[felix93]

If there's no love, there will have no pain. The only healer is the time. The pain will ease but that is we learn how to cope and deal with the pain. Every single pet that came to our lives is precious and there's always hard to let go. But they're just lend to us for a very short time. Take each day as it comes and when the time is right, you will think of all the happy memories you and your husband with Molly.

If any of us can help to take the pain away, we all will do that for you straight away. I am praying for you and your husband and have both of your broken hearts mended soon.

I am sorry for your lost.

 

[CHITheresa]

So sorry for your loss. It get better but does take time. I lost several but my last Pomeranian 3 months before I got Amberleah. She doesn't take way what I feel for my sissy but Amberleah helps so much.

 

[missydawn]

Thank you every one for letting me vent,you all wrote with such thoughtfulness.It means alot!I know time will help us deal with it easier,but for now the hurt is unbearable! Who knew such a tiny little handful 8 1/2 years ago would of had so much impact on our lives.We were telling her we loved her as the angels came and got her.I know that my baby was tierd of fighting this illness.Her body couldn't take it any more.Don't ever miss that chance to whisper in their ear "I love you",one day you want be able to.Thank you for listening.And the new person that added a comment,thank you ,that meant alot that you reached out.

 

[fayzoe]

Thank you every one for letting me vent,you all wrote with such thoughtfulness.It means alot!I know time will help us deal with it easier,but for now the hurt is unbearable! Who knew such a tiny little handful 8 1/2 years ago would of had so much impact on our lives.We were telling her we loved her as the angels came and got her.I know that my baby was tierd of fighting this illness.Her body couldn't take it any more.Don't ever miss that chance to whisper in their ear "I love you",one day you want be able to.Thank you for listening.And the new person that added a comment,thank you ,that meant alot that you reached out.

Shelia you must be feeling terrible it will get better in time when i lost my Zoe i could not stop crying i dont know what i would have done if i never had all the girls on here they were great just listening to me. You are not on you'r own there is always someone on here if you'r feeling low that you can talk to. I know no words can take away you'r pain right now so sorry Big Hugs xx

 

[Mona Lisa's Smile]

My heart goes out to you and your family. May you find some peace with time.

 

[Angel1210]

Sheila I know how you feel. I think with pets the pain is even worse because I don't think they know exactly what happens. You can't really explain it to them. And it's worse when they go around looking for them! But I am sure that Molly would like you to give them the extra love and attention that she had.

I don't believe we ever heal we learn to deal with it. Let it take the time it needs.

I wish you well.

 

[Jayda]

I know how hard it is! I lost my first kitty when she was 16. It was heartbreaking. My other cat clearly missed her too. I gets better eventually. Don't every underestimate how much we love them. There is a hole when they are gone but it confirms how special they are. Hoping for better days ahead (-:

 

[Jennin24]

I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you guys are feeling. It will get better over time. That song is such a sad song, but I can see how it can bring you comfort. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[lulu'smom]

Sheila, my heart hurts for you because I do know what you are going through. We lost our Lacy just before she turned 5 yrs old from a sudden illness. It is devastating. Our pets have a piece of our hearts just as our loved ones do. They love us as we love them--it just hurts. Please know we do understand and we do care, and you are in our thoughts and prayers.